A nickname for your public profile
Other members see your public nickname. You can chat without displaying your legal name on your profile. Choose a nickname that suits you and a bio that explains your interests without publishing contact details or your workplace.
A nickname does not stop someone recognising a photo or a detail in your bio. For discreet dating, consider everything you share: images, text, messages and personal information.
Incognito and anonymous profile are different controls
When enabled, incognito mode limits profile discovery to people you have already liked. It helps you choose who can discover you. The anonymous profile option hides your public photos when enabled. It changes what is shown rather than the same visibility rule.
The app displays the terms and pricing of these options. Review what each one changes before subscribing. Neither provides absolute anonymity: your conversations, the service’s obligations and information you choose to disclose still matter.
Keep boundaries in your conversations
You can block a profile or report behaviour that breaks the rules. If someone pressures you for photos, contact details or a purchase, you can decline and end the exchange. A match is not consent to share everything.
Start with the information you are comfortable sharing and continue at your own pace. Private spaces limit access under their terms, but no app can guarantee that visible information will never be copied.